He is always stealing the things you really need to do… exercise, open that stack of mail, clean that cluttered corner, call that worried parent, spend time with that troubled teen, work on a better lesson plan.
Figment loves to take the important things you need to do and leave you with the urgent. He would love to visit with your sick Mom or write an e-mail to your old college buddy who has cancer and he’ll certainly take it off your hands.
Figment is full of promises and plans and will be more than happy to plan your summer vacation for you. Figment is also a great blogger and will be happy to write that post for you… tomorrow.
This is Today. He struggles. He never has quite enough time to do it all, but he can do something. He ticks a few special things off of his list. He struggles with interruptions and he lives very in the now.
Who is Figment?
You see, Figment is just that, a figment of your imagination. He represents all of the “I’ll start that tomorrow”‘s in your life. He is life’s perpetual excuse. He does not deny his ability to complete a task, he just puts it off until tomorrow…and the next day…and the next.
If you allow Figment to steal the most important things in your life, you will never do them.
How Figment can kill you.
When my daughter had her tonsils removed I was waiting in the surgery waiting room and shared the most heart breaking story with those waiting next to me.
A doctor came out and told this family after four hours of heart surgery that he had bought another chance for their heart attack patient (their father and husband) with four clogged arteries. He told them that if this man continued to smoke and eat unhealthy foods that he was signing his own death sentence.
The doctor then explained that he could not be expected to be a mechanic and “fix him up” every time his arteries became clogged and that at some point he was going to have a problem when the Doc wasn’t there. Doc said the only thing that would save this man was a total lifestyle change.
The family was happy that their father and husband made it but talked in hushed whispers about this man’s Figment plans over the last twenty years to begin exercizing and eating right.
You see, this man let Figment steal his life.
I will not allow Figment to steal my life!
I am a recovering Food-a-holic. I am a Southern USA woman and I love to cook. I’m pretty good at it (even if I say so myself) and love to eat the product of my labors too! Mmmm give me a covered dish supper and a reinforced Chinet plate!
Two years a go I changed my lifestyle and over the last two years I have lost almost fifty pounds. My husband has lost around sixty. (See my post How to Be Better at Everything You Do.)
Each May, I struggle. May 2005 I gained 10 lbs, this May I held it to five.
I have to stay healthy! I have made up my mind and I am NOT going back to my formerly sedentary ways!
I feel better, stronger, think more clearly, and commune with God more closely when I am pushing my body to move faster and try harder. I can again shoot hoops with my children, throw the football with my son, and run and play. This past spring I walked up around 800 steps to go to the top of a beautiful water fall in North Georgia.
The benefits I have gotten have greatly overcome the “missed” food. In fact, I haven’t really “missed” the food, I still eat a lot of what I want. I can have a slice of chocolate cake… just not the whole cake!
Stealing exercise from Figment and putting it in today!
I’ve fallen out of the exercise habit over the last four weeks but this morning, I got up at 6:15 and thought about my Figment, “tomorrow I will exercise.”
I then decided, “You know what, I will exercise tomorrow but it will start Today!”
So, here I am after the hardest run I’ve made in the past year. I’ve lost a lot of speed and endurance, but you know what, I ran!
I have moved my most important thing from a Figment of my imagination to today! As I sweat over this keyboard, I feel like the winner that I am! I did something important! There are few adrenaline rushes like it in the world than that of overcoming internal obstacles to change!
For when something is a Figment, you are saying, “This is not important enough for me to do right now” or “I will not do this now. I don’t want to!”
So, I’m challenging you today to put aside your excuses and take the most important thing you’ve left to Figment and snatch it back into Today!
When you do it — tell others and encourage them! (There are too many people saying we can’t do it, we need more cheerleaders out there!)
Don’t let Figment live the life you could have had!
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